Online Arguments

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Personally, I think getting into an online argument is generally a futile endeavor. For one thing, it is unlikely that the individual you disagree with will be willing to heed even the most beautifully crafted rebuttal. Secondly, the conversation too easily dissolves into name calling and trash talk, and third, there are just some people out there—trolls, etc.—whose only aim is to post content that incites an argument for no worthy cause.

Nevertheless, there are some people out there who genuinely seek a stimulating exchange of ideas or a challenging mental exercise. For them, online argumentation can be a place to find intellectual fulfillment. Consequently, if a meaningful debate is what you seek in an online argument, consider following these five guidelines: 

1. Be selective

For a satisfying interaction, do your best to engage with people you think will actually be open to new ideas or who also enjoy a debate. 

2. Provide evidence

Back up your claims with solid evidence/data from creditable, verified sources. Proof from widely respected resources is more likely to convince someone to change their mind rather than simply your belief that they are wrong. 

3. Be respectful 

Even if you disagree, do not make fun of their views or beliefs, but find ways to navigate the conversation while treating their argument with respect. Showing respect not only gives you the moral high ground, but it also encourages the other person to be more willing to appreciate your ideas. 

No name-calling or swearing at your opponent. This will not make them want to entertain your ideas!

4. Admit defeat when necessary—but with a caveat

Instead of dissolving into mudslinging when proved wrong in an argument, try to exit with grace. For example: “I see I have not proved my stance as adequately as I’d like. I will do some further research and respond when I have more evidence.”

5. Empathy

Remember, behind the computer or phone screen is another human being who has feelings and emotions just like you. Shaming them will not make them want to be more accepting of your beliefs! Secondly, everyone has their own reasons and personal experiences that have guided them toward a certain conclusion or belief. Try to be open to their beliefs and views just as you want them to be receptive to yours.

For an example of an online argument that could have been a meaningful conversation but instead went off the trails, let’s take a look at this Facebook post shared to Reddit by Poor_And_Needy:

* Comment boxes are mine and explain where things took a bad turn *

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Now that we have seen an example of approaches not to take in an online argument, let us attempt to be more mindful in how we interact with others online and consider using the five guidelines mentioned above in our next online encounter.